I had a General discussion with my Friends ! While discussing I told them i had an idea ! whenever u are celebrating your kids b'day , Pl ask the visitors not to bring Any GIFT instead you can keep some Hundi BOX , if they wish they can contribute their part and u can handed over the money to some ASHRAM.
All disagreed as their kids cannot accept if people did not Bring any b'day gift ! Agree Because they are kids ! they have expectation ! they do not know what is good ? and what is bad? ! Def they feel bad if some one not giving gift to them !
Leave all part , the following is my own opinion ! NO OFFENCE MEANT!
* i yet to bless with baby's so my opinion may not be perfect , it is just a thought !
As a parent Cannot we change their mind slowly? if not this b'day may be next b'day they can think it off? right? it wont required much Year ! how are they growing ? by seeing and learning . If u do i am sure at least three of your friends w'll follow ! so it goes! !!!!!!
We always feel we grow up our kid better than our parents if that is the case we can make this too ! Share your idea guys !
Idea1 :
Instead of other buying a gift for your kid , U buy some 3 to 4 gift and wrap it ! Tell your kids that they w'll get 4 gift at the end of b'day i am sure we can make them !
Random Thought
I have strong dis agreement towards parents who says " i struggled a lot so i do not want my Kids too" Sooner or later u daughter or son does not know what is failure? later they cannot digest, def they wll face one day because its a competitive world ! u w'll fall in trouble ! U are there to safeguard them But do not tell them u are holding the ROPE
Yours
AparnaRajeshkumar !
All disagreed as their kids cannot accept if people did not Bring any b'day gift ! Agree Because they are kids ! they have expectation ! they do not know what is good ? and what is bad? ! Def they feel bad if some one not giving gift to them !
Leave all part , the following is my own opinion ! NO OFFENCE MEANT!
* i yet to bless with baby's so my opinion may not be perfect , it is just a thought !
As a parent Cannot we change their mind slowly? if not this b'day may be next b'day they can think it off? right? it wont required much Year ! how are they growing ? by seeing and learning . If u do i am sure at least three of your friends w'll follow ! so it goes! !!!!!!
We always feel we grow up our kid better than our parents if that is the case we can make this too ! Share your idea guys !
Idea1 :
Instead of other buying a gift for your kid , U buy some 3 to 4 gift and wrap it ! Tell your kids that they w'll get 4 gift at the end of b'day i am sure we can make them !
Random Thought
I have strong dis agreement towards parents who says " i struggled a lot so i do not want my Kids too" Sooner or later u daughter or son does not know what is failure? later they cannot digest, def they wll face one day because its a competitive world ! u w'll fall in trouble ! U are there to safeguard them But do not tell them u are holding the ROPE
Yours
AparnaRajeshkumar !
